blah blah ... no one is acting - going out and banging hot girls or getting into casual relationships right away helps, it did for me plain and simple. Obviously it isn't black and white so of course there will be some people that go the other way.

 

sex does that

 

but is that inate (the way we were born) or the way society has groomed us to be......I banged a lot of chicks after I broke up with my ex......on the outside I was cool and everything was ok....on the inside I still knew I was full of ****.....

 

ok

 

Never been called a dick, actually most girls agree I am a nice guy

 

I call

 

i like you today lol

 

hot

 

ok well maybe my girlfriend in highscool when i dumped her a week before prom to take a hotter girl - but anything before the age of 18 doesnt count in the convo

 

i didn't mean you're a dick, i was just saying that's why guys are dicks in general. you're a nice guy, but i'm honestly not buying it that going out and banging girls is helping you get over someone else. do you never compare them to her, or never wonder what she's doing while you're out, or think about banging her while you're banging them, or anything else?

 

it's in there everyday but due to our society I keep it to myself.......plus I'm old.....they say you get wiser....maybe it's true.....

 

+1000000 I would bang that girl all night and all day.....:YEAH I give the lil bastard mad props!!

 

agreed....it's just that never was way to much time for me to believe that was true!!

 

i have a scratch off..i hope i win $10....


scratching now

 

it's a spite thing...which means she's the reason he's banging them....see bitch I don't need you.....it's actually a rather simple theory....most men are rather simple....and women are nuts.....

 

dammit, i didn't win anything

 

it's our hormones

 

I'm sitting here typing that it helped me, if it didn't I would have typed that instead. Of course you compare, thats how you learn what you really want in a signifigant other. I can honestly say i have never thought about another girl while banging one.

 

i don't agree with the older you get the wiser. you would think that people would learn from their mistakes, but alot actually don't

 

I just did it cause it was fun and I was in college.