Am i being an A**hole????
Re: Am i being an A**hole????
Originally Posted by Armenian
Chicks think stunting is cool for 5 minutes when you bring them out to the spot then the nagging begins and you end up cutting your stunt session down to 10 hours instead of 12 hours.
The girl this dude is talking about sounds like one of "those" chicks just mentioned....
Alvin
The girl this dude is talking about sounds like one of "those" chicks just mentioned....
Alvin
and on top of that, u have to worry about the white trash kids starin at her, which then agrivates me, ruins my riding.. and causes fights... so all in all, i want to be free like ***** :YEAH
Re: Am i being an A**hole????
Originally Posted by crtchrktrcr
yeah well their gf's are actually chill and will video tape or go ride fifty's, not sit and ****ing complain and make me feel like i'm babysitting
-Alvin
Re: Am i being an A**hole????
Originally Posted by crtchrktrcr
yeah but the rest of my post was informative and insightful! u ***, wow 14 ppl in this place.. you are one popular guy, so u want to stop bein gay and come ride this weekend? cuz those power whoolies have got to go!
I know good thread huh??! :YEAH
Yeah we're riding this weekend for ssssssssssssuuuuuureeee.
Re: Am i being an A**hole????
Originally Posted by Armenian
Chicks think stunting is cool for 5 minutes when you bring them out to the spot then the nagging begins and you end up cutting your stunt session down to 10 hours instead of 12 hours.
The girl this dude is talking about sounds like one of "those" chicks just mentioned....
Alvin
The girl this dude is talking about sounds like one of "those" chicks just mentioned....
Alvin
Alvin
Not all chicks are like that.. Maybe you just hung out with the wrong ones.. Find a chick with a bike and you'll never hear her b1tch :YEAH
Re: Am i being an A**hole????
Originally Posted by nugirl
Alvin
Not all chicks are like that.. Maybe you just hung out with the wrong ones.. Find a chick with a bike and you'll never hear her b1tch :YEAH
Not all chicks are like that.. Maybe you just hung out with the wrong ones.. Find a chick with a bike and you'll never hear her b1tch :YEAH
Re: Am i being an A**hole????
Originally Posted by Armenian
Chicks think stunting is cool for 5 minutes when you bring them out to the spot then the nagging begins and you end up cutting your stunt session down to 10 hours instead of 12 hours.
The girl this dude is talking about sounds like one of "those" chicks just mentioned....
Alvin
The girl this dude is talking about sounds like one of "those" chicks just mentioned....
Alvin
put'er on the fiddy and she'll stay for hours
Re: Am i being an A**hole????
Dude I was almost in the same spot a year and a half ago. My girl loved the fact that I had a bike at first. Then she slowly tried to phase me out of going riding with the group saturday nights. And pretty much riding in general. Then a friend of hers died on his bike and her grandmother died. She wanted me to sell both of my streetbikes and basically do nothing that could have the potential to harm me. I talked with her and decided that they would sit for a while (hoping things would blow over but they didn't).
Then it was my friends, she didnt approve of them and she didnt want me to hang out with them. Then she didn't want me to go out without her, for fear that I may be trying to meet someone else.
Eventually she was talking and she wanted me to sell my bikes to buy her some absurd 15 thousand dollar diamond ring.
Needless to say, I bought a 50 and kept the street bikes and well let's just say that I chose for her to no longer be a part of my life.
Now In my case I don't have a child to weigh in, which makes the decision even harder. Do realize no matter how long you give it to cool off her position will not change.
All in all I took a full year off from riding. I was extremely busy finishing my degree and working full time so it wasn't that bad. When I started riding again the issue resurfaced and I wasn't hearing it.
I have been riding nag free again for about 8 months and it is great. There are plenty more women out there that will accept you for who you are and what you enjoy doing.
Good luck in whatever you decide.
Steven
Then it was my friends, she didnt approve of them and she didnt want me to hang out with them. Then she didn't want me to go out without her, for fear that I may be trying to meet someone else.
Eventually she was talking and she wanted me to sell my bikes to buy her some absurd 15 thousand dollar diamond ring.
Needless to say, I bought a 50 and kept the street bikes and well let's just say that I chose for her to no longer be a part of my life.
Now In my case I don't have a child to weigh in, which makes the decision even harder. Do realize no matter how long you give it to cool off her position will not change.
All in all I took a full year off from riding. I was extremely busy finishing my degree and working full time so it wasn't that bad. When I started riding again the issue resurfaced and I wasn't hearing it.
I have been riding nag free again for about 8 months and it is great. There are plenty more women out there that will accept you for who you are and what you enjoy doing.
Good luck in whatever you decide.
Steven
Re: Am i being an A**hole????
bro i am going through this right now....my girl had our kid and now she wants me to stop riding completely.....which is hard cause i have already sold 4 of my dirt bikes and my 2 bmw's.....i only have the stunt bike and the race bike left....now i understand that she doesnt want me to die....but what she doesnt relise is that if i STOP riding then i will.....riding is my life and my passion.....my father raced professionally for 15 years and i have just grown up around it....i love it...and its my way out.....so i quit simply put it like this to her....that i will keep the stunting to the lots and the racing on the track....but i will not give it up....the compromise we have is shakey cause she still wants me to stop....its a daily conversation with us....and we arent even together right now....just trying to work **** out....so it im stuck with the whole give it up for my family or no....which if it came down to it i would no questions asked....my son and her are the most important things in my life....but it hasnt come to that yet....so im still fighting it....just my .02 i hope it helps....i definately dont envy your situation....good luck.
Re: Am i being an A**hole????
Originally Posted by nugirl
I was in a serious relationship for some time with a guy that rode/stunted and I would never, ever have told him to dump it despite how dangerous it is. (I didn't have a bike at the time) When it's our time to go, it's our time to go. Doesn't matter if we're on bikes, on foot, or in a car. If it's going to happen, it's just going to happen.
If someone ever told me that I had to get rid of my bike, I WOULD BOUNCE!!!. Those that don't ride or have never ridden have no idea how addictive and how much of a release riding is....How is it fair to take something away from someone that they truly enjoy? Would she like it if you took something away from her that she truly loved?
It isn't fair to give you an ultimatum. There's gotta be common ground here. I understand that she's worried about you (for good reason) but again, when it's our time to go, it doesn't matter where we are. Maybe you truly need to explain to her how much you enjoy it and how much it hurts you for her to make you make decisions like that. It just isn't fair. If you're taking care of your child and your responsibilities at home, you should be able to do whatever it is that you enjoy outside of it.
Just my
Best of luck to you
If someone ever told me that I had to get rid of my bike, I WOULD BOUNCE!!!. Those that don't ride or have never ridden have no idea how addictive and how much of a release riding is....How is it fair to take something away from someone that they truly enjoy? Would she like it if you took something away from her that she truly loved?
It isn't fair to give you an ultimatum. There's gotta be common ground here. I understand that she's worried about you (for good reason) but again, when it's our time to go, it doesn't matter where we are. Maybe you truly need to explain to her how much you enjoy it and how much it hurts you for her to make you make decisions like that. It just isn't fair. If you're taking care of your child and your responsibilities at home, you should be able to do whatever it is that you enjoy outside of it.
Just my
Best of luck to you
but anyways...u have alot of mixed emotions about it and well that is highly understandable...finding the medium ground is the trick...it isnt always easy, but once u get there...its a nice thing...
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I'm so sorry that you guys have to deal with ultimatums like this. It isn't fair. I personally think, that if someone loves you, they'll respect what makes you happy. I couldn't make someone stop doing what they love. Wouldnt't them to do that to me. Best of luck to all you guys with girl issues. Tell her to call me, I'll take her out on my bike and make her change her mind..
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Re: Am i being an A**hole????
Originally Posted by nugirl
I'm so sorry that you guys have to deal with ultimatums like this. It isn't fair. I personally think, that if someone loves you, they'll respect what makes you happy. I couldn't make someone stop doing what they love. Wouldnt't them to do that to me. Best of luck to all you guys with girl issues. Tell her to call me, I'll take her out on my bike and make her change her mind..
ha ha
ha ha
Re: Am i being an A**hole????
Originally Posted by GundamnitPete
put'er on the fiddy and she'll stay for hours 

so she gets on it, and it keeps stalling, i'm like wtf.. she was turning the throttle the wrong way!! so then i tell her how it works, she pins it in first gear, heading towards a curb, wobbles and eats ****! if that' isn't an "i told you so" to go down in history, so then i had to deal with her *****ing about her ***!
my buddy has a gf who rides, reallllly cool chick, she was doin whoolies on the fiddy lastnite, he's a lucky one!








