my boy cheats on his girlfriend like he takes showers, but it isnt because he doesnt love her.... he loves the **** out of her, it is just like a hobby to him. its like he likes the stress of it, he likes to be questioned or something, like a game to him in some way.

if it came to his relation ship and the girls he runs with i doubt he choose against his girl, but i know he would be back to the same old tricks again if he stopped.

cheating on some one is really one of those things that are a tightrope walk.... cheating most of the time comes from curiosity, and i know from personal experience. i have not cheated..... well yeah i did, but the circumstances were so ****ed up. it was an emotion thing, and i tried to make right what i wronged, and i was totally honest with the girl that i cheated on. but to no avail i still did what i did.....


my situation was that i had broken up with this one girl of 6 years, and i jumped into another relation ship too quick without letting my self heal. that is a main cause of cheating to tell the truth, fellas get a girl they dig(or vice versa.), and she is all so friendly and they hookup. she tells em about a ex and the guy is all cool about it, then later on in the relationship they cheat on em with the infamous "eX".

other times, it isnt that the guy doesnt love his girl.... he just sees something that either his girl isnt, or something that is totally easy to get. guys and girls alike are that way, it is just depending on what the individuals restraints are. either they can just look and not touch, or they can rob the cookie jar.

ok so sorry for butting my male testosterone in on your female discussion, i will exit now.

 

How does a guy look taken if he's not with another girl?? So it's the guys purpose to advertise he's single.. Next time i go out I'll wear a sign.. Hi. I'm Single

 

Yeah i don't believe that a club is a healthy place to meet people but honestly I don't see where else you could meet people if your not in: college, going to church, etc.

 

sorry... i had to post it ..
(this is an actual t shirt)

 

HAHAHA awesome.. I'd so wear that. I like to wear sarcastic shirts. I got one from Hollister that said " And your name was what again?"

 

once and i still feal like **** when i think about it. gee thanks for reopening that wound. now where is that salt????

 

Did the BF at the time find out?? Did you tell him??

Truth serum if you ask me.....poor excuse though!!

 

wanna hear something wierd......I was with a girl I really loved but she was not at all physical due to a bad expirience when she was younger....so yes eventually I cheated on her, and that seemed to keep everyone happy....(short term of course) But since the demise of our relationship I have not been able to trust people because I know what I did and how easy it was to get away with and I fear it'll happen to me.....wierd how it does damage on both ends huh??

 

It only damaged you cause you actually have a heart - a lot of people can cheat on someone else and never think twice about it ... sad really.

On a different note off topic real fast - I was just looking at the new posts section and skillz's was the last poster in close to every thread ... LOL ...

 

I was bored this morning leave me alone........and I don't have a heart I'm a mother fvcking toughguy!!

 

Liar Liar pants on fire ... I have the proof - I still have pics of Olivia and squishy ... LOL ...

 

1, 2, 3, 4, FIFTH!!! I plead the 5th!!

 

We are getting this thread VERY ... with our post whoring ...

 

so stop PW'in post *****!!

 

i can prove you have a softy side :YEAH

 

let's just let it go...sound good?? K great!!

 

lol .. ok, leavin it alone and handing you a beer *rollin my eyes*

 

thanks I could use a beer!!

 

My theory is if your going to cheat just leave and don't come back. Save everybody from the heartache.

 

*high fives*