good luck mike. do something fun

 

I don't feel like working today. Maybe it was getting up at 4am yesterday of the 12 hour work day. I think I am goign to bust *** for an hour or 2 then leave.

 

Peace out. Go eat a steak dinner.

 

ya i was 2 hrs late this morning cuz of the tire...and now i reek ot diesel

 

******* shoulder is killing me today

 

Doc didnt give you painkillers?

 

no
i should have asked

 

did the shots help?

 

Skillz.... Damn. You just got like a bajillion "Right on!" respect points from me, you are dead on & wiser than I ever knew before. Damn good advice, and so so true.

[quote=crtchrktrcr;2609687]Rcr, I have good news for you. I don't know much of the situation here, I'm coming in late, but damn I heart for ya dear! *hug* Anyways, the good news is this: Everything you just said says to me that she is passive-aggressively trying to make you jealous and aware of her availability of options & ability for independence. The fact that she wants to throw these things in your face means she is trying to evoke an emotional response in you. To simplify, SHE WANTS TO SEE HOW MUCH YOU CARE. So don't play the 'I don't care' game, it will backfire. On the flipside, make her sorry for playing her game on you. Don't answer the phone as much as you can, ESPECIALLY late at night. Believe me, those calls will only bring you more heartwrenching. DO talk to her BRIEFLY one time, explaining "I'm sorry, but all this stuff you keep telling me about just hurts me too much to hear, I can't take it. So I'm sorry if I don't take your calls, believe me I want to talk to you, I miss you, but I hurt more every time I do, so I just can't." Say your piece and get the **** out fo that phone call. I know you want to hear what she has to say, but the point is you don't let her. Let HER feel bad, and force her to sit & dwell on it a bit. Let her know she is hurting you too much with this, and you can't handle it so you gotta cut it off to get by. Plant the idea to her that she is seriously doing permanent damage to whatever relationship you & she will have from here on, the longer she keeps this up, and if she does keep it up, soon there won't be anything salvageable. It's a bit of a bluff call, but I'm telling you I think she is just needing an ego boost & wants to see how much you really care & make you appreciate her by losing her. Had things maybe gotten a little stagnant or stale leading up to this? Too routine? She's trying to shake it up. But she's young & going about it in a harmful way, so take control, after flipping it on her for a bit to make it backfire on HER, you can then take charge, approach her and explain that you feel you have a great potential thing with her that you don't want to throw away, she is someone you could see yourself marrying, but you agree that maybe things got a little off track and you would like to take this as an ooportunity to hit the RESET button and start over with her to get back on the right track, knowing now what mistakes to avoid so you guys can do a better job the 2nd time around. But EASE back into it, make her work for it a bit to get let back in, start fresh right at the beginning where it was fun & romantic & you were learning about eachother, start DATING eachother again! Keep a limit, or you will slip right back into where you left off, & she will come to feel the same way she does now all over again. CHANGE THE PATH. It must be a new direction for you guys, and assure her that.
**** I wrote alot, I'll stop here.

Yeah that sounds spot on true to me too.

 

Amature Mistake

 

If you have insurance you should go back and ask.

 

This is what you do, go there and get some vicoden(thats prob what he'll give you) Call 2 days later and tell them that all they did was make you puke and then they'll give you percs.:YEAH

 

didnt get any yet - had my mri tuesday night, waiting to hear results

 

what do they think it is? slipped disk or something>?

 

my eye will not quit twitching. im actually getting pissed

 

in my shoulder? hahaha no either torn rotator cuff or post labral tear of cartilage ... wont know anything untiul mri results

 

SHE HAS GOT TO KNOW THIS. Tell her. Cuz I'd bet money on her thinking she can do whatever the **** she wants, and take her sweet time, and as long as she puts in a check-in call to you here & there she can keep you on her line & patiently waiting on the backburner the whole time & you'll be right there to take her back gratefully & unquestioningly when she is done having her fun or playing this game.
She will NEVER appreciate or RESPECT you deep in her mind if you allow this. You will be doormat guy. We never can bring ourselves to truly respect those, and honestly they can get quite boring with their predictability. So DON'T be predictable, and DON'T be there when she expects you to be. Show her she was wrong about that about you, belive me she will be alarmed but delightfully surprised in a way, its the excitement factor of wanting something suddenly just because we can't have it or that it throws us for a loop.
If she believes that she honestly could lose you and rather quickly with this **** she's pulling, and that it would be for good, I think she'll cut it out quick. If she was prepared to close the door on you for good she would have done so already and just made a clean break. But she's keeping you around, stringing you along on the line... she wants to keep you there for her to come back to if she wants. But if you stay on that line you will be held in limbo for god knows how long and quite possibly for nothing.

TELL HER you are on the verge of deciding to just cut her off & move on to save yourself, that you need closure. Watch how quickly she scrambles & backpedals to change your mind.

 

I get that too. It's part stress/tension, part vitamin deficiency. I think potassium? I forget. All I remember was I was told by many to eat a lot more bananas to fix it in the long run, and do some slow breahing exercises for possible relief temporarily.

 

Oh and I forgot-- caffeine will only make it waaay worse & last much longer! Get enough sleep, and cut caffeine for a while. It should go away.

 

Ahh, did some quick reserach and I think I have a medically backed answer for you... GET OFF STUNTLIFE!! LOL
No, really:

Dear Yahoo!: What causes your eye to twitch?
Merc
Redwood City, California

Dear Merc:
As web surfers, we are all too familiar with that annoying eye tic that sometimes occurs after a long day spent in front of the computer, so we paid close attention as our search results popped up, remembering to blink every now and then for good measure. It appears most eye twiches are harmless, involuntary spasms of the tiny muscles surrounding the eye. Some causes are fatigue, squinting a lot, consuming too much caffeine, or working in a less than ideal visual environment, e.g., staring at a computer screens for long periods of time. Just like a muscle spasm at any other part of the body, an eye twitch can mean you've taxed your muscles and need to relax them.
At home treatments that may help include hot baths, warm or cold compresses, rinsing your eyes out with warm water, or administrating eye drops.
However persistent, more violent eye twitches could be a symptom of other physical or psychological ailments, such as undue stress or temper tantrums, neurological damage, or even epilepsy.