Listen
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Joined: Aug 2003
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From: Chicago,Il
Re: Listen
Originally Posted by bikerboy
OKOKOK, everybody I am going to say this and make it ****** short....
I am going to combine everything from what everone said in one ****** post so that RideLx can grasp what everyone says......
OK, hmmm how do I put this....
Picture this huge ****** girly man (some chicks posted as well as dudes) But this girly man, Well, let me call it a manly girl. Ok. This manly girl (more manly than girly cause more dudes posted) So this giant manly girl is big cause like everyone here that posted is combined.... This Monsta says something....
And this is what it says.....
"Grrrr... RMP listen up. Yeah yeah yeah. I am not trying to be a ****** ******* and feel your pain. Don't do it aghain and be thankful. Live life to its fullest...(nice side of the monster) Now Please shut up about this **** in every thread. Your pissing this monster the *** up. We get your ****** point. We voiced our ****** point. Do you get the point? (str8 up side)....
You see it was pretty on target.
Hey, I thought you were done man. Did you not read what I wrote. I said don't put this shT up any more. Then people will start to come around and be better to you. If you wanted to say all that then you should have said it in that thread. You DON'T need to make new ones about the same issue. And frankly, I said to not tell people about what you did. But at that point you already had. You should have left it at that. Now coming back to explain how and the rest is not OUR business to know. Listen to me man. QUIT telling people about your business. Like I said before, I'd love to be your dad.
... Your job is to tell them how you feel. Not us. We DON'T have the time to be saying RPM RPM get well soon , or glad to be back, or you have to much to live for. We have said that already. Taake it and remember it. Then don't post it again. One topic, one thread, unless its outdated and old, but you just had a similar post like on the second or thried page when many thread are coming in everyday.
I am going to say this for the last time. And listen with your ears or I'll make you listen with your *** (if I was your daddy). Don';t post anything else on this matter. If those who wanted to know more then PM them. But I say don't even tell them. If you take things to heart so seriously then quit giving them fuel to keep the fire going. You are partly at fault. What is it with giving all you perosnal business to the world? Stop. OK ..STOP. In another [pst, I saw someone put what I did. No one gives thier probelms to the public to view. Everyone has problems with something. No one advocates it. What for? That is NOT our business.
So, ...
1. don't post on personal ****
2. don't do repeat posts of the same ****
3. if you have something personal, post it and let it be, but don't get your feeling hurt when you do. Most will post stuff like " My friend went down and is in the hospital", that is fine. But not person things like" I have a disease, I have an STD" That is not our business. You post it if you want but I say don't. You already have a bad reputation with many. So don't make it worse.
4. Post about your girl but don't keep posting about it day in and day out. Yea, go on the date, have fun, and be yourself. That's it. That is it. Do post tomorrow saying "she had pop corn and I started to get discouraged when she ate to slow..."You know, things that no one cares about. That is you rnusiness. If she dumps you later on, who cares, don't need to post it. Everybody has gotten dumped. Nothing new.
5. Lastly, look around. Observe. How many people post so many times about themselves or more than once on the personal issues? MOst everyone doesn't. They see a post, put something in and leave. Or create a post about something they heard on the new, or what happened that particular day, etc. Something interesting. The things you post may be interesting to you and a few others but post it. Don't post threads that appear to be asking for brownie points and for people to feel sorry for you. Think of it in someone elses shoes. If I died, would it impact your life? NO. And you probably wouldn't shed a tear. You might feel bad like" Damn, that sucks, hope he is in a better place" and go on with your day and prob not think aboutit again. That is how you sound. You want people to feel sorry for you when really, nobody truthfully cares. They may feel like I said above, man that sucks, don't do it, and look to the future. But that is about it. We don't know you. We don't live your life. And most here will not care if you become homeless. You more probably wont but its just an example. Attention needs to be sought from your family and friends. If you don't have friends then go chat with your parents. And PLEASE, DO NOT, i REPEAT, DO NOT TELL THIS GIRL THATYOU ARE GOING ON THE DATE WITH YOUR PERSON PROBLEMS!!!!!!!!!!!
You will most def. lose her. I can assure you of that. Be yourself and DON'T TALK ABOUT PERSONAL BUSINESS. The same thing goes for the things you say on these boards.
Turnover a new leaf like you said. No more pity posts. I believe the ones who felt bad may start to grow callus to your cries. We are not psychologists. We do not come here to analyze and fix everyones probelms. Most come here to shoot the breeze and to see what's new. Not talk about someones personal problems.
And didn't I tell you that if you posted some more stuff like this it could bite you in the ***. ANd look you have got people fighting and bickering at eachother. Just be done with the personal stuff. Be DONE. If its something we can help you with or joke with (in good terms) by all means, post it. But your credibility is diminishing as being new as an individual without the drama. You seem to be bringing it all back again...Man, let it go. Let the past be the past. Look to the future but remember your past as to not make the same mistakes again. That goes here and in life....
Just be cool. Chill out... And go back and read that other damn post I wrote...
I am going to combine everything from what everone said in one ****** post so that RideLx can grasp what everyone says......
OK, hmmm how do I put this....
Picture this huge ****** girly man (some chicks posted as well as dudes) But this girly man, Well, let me call it a manly girl. Ok. This manly girl (more manly than girly cause more dudes posted) So this giant manly girl is big cause like everyone here that posted is combined.... This Monsta says something....
And this is what it says.....
"Grrrr... RMP listen up. Yeah yeah yeah. I am not trying to be a ****** ******* and feel your pain. Don't do it aghain and be thankful. Live life to its fullest...(nice side of the monster) Now Please shut up about this **** in every thread. Your pissing this monster the *** up. We get your ****** point. We voiced our ****** point. Do you get the point? (str8 up side)....
You see it was pretty on target.
Hey, I thought you were done man. Did you not read what I wrote. I said don't put this shT up any more. Then people will start to come around and be better to you. If you wanted to say all that then you should have said it in that thread. You DON'T need to make new ones about the same issue. And frankly, I said to not tell people about what you did. But at that point you already had. You should have left it at that. Now coming back to explain how and the rest is not OUR business to know. Listen to me man. QUIT telling people about your business. Like I said before, I'd love to be your dad.
... Your job is to tell them how you feel. Not us. We DON'T have the time to be saying RPM RPM get well soon , or glad to be back, or you have to much to live for. We have said that already. Taake it and remember it. Then don't post it again. One topic, one thread, unless its outdated and old, but you just had a similar post like on the second or thried page when many thread are coming in everyday. I am going to say this for the last time. And listen with your ears or I'll make you listen with your *** (if I was your daddy). Don';t post anything else on this matter. If those who wanted to know more then PM them. But I say don't even tell them. If you take things to heart so seriously then quit giving them fuel to keep the fire going. You are partly at fault. What is it with giving all you perosnal business to the world? Stop. OK ..STOP. In another [pst, I saw someone put what I did. No one gives thier probelms to the public to view. Everyone has problems with something. No one advocates it. What for? That is NOT our business.
So, ...
1. don't post on personal ****
2. don't do repeat posts of the same ****
3. if you have something personal, post it and let it be, but don't get your feeling hurt when you do. Most will post stuff like " My friend went down and is in the hospital", that is fine. But not person things like" I have a disease, I have an STD" That is not our business. You post it if you want but I say don't. You already have a bad reputation with many. So don't make it worse.
4. Post about your girl but don't keep posting about it day in and day out. Yea, go on the date, have fun, and be yourself. That's it. That is it. Do post tomorrow saying "she had pop corn and I started to get discouraged when she ate to slow..."You know, things that no one cares about. That is you rnusiness. If she dumps you later on, who cares, don't need to post it. Everybody has gotten dumped. Nothing new.
5. Lastly, look around. Observe. How many people post so many times about themselves or more than once on the personal issues? MOst everyone doesn't. They see a post, put something in and leave. Or create a post about something they heard on the new, or what happened that particular day, etc. Something interesting. The things you post may be interesting to you and a few others but post it. Don't post threads that appear to be asking for brownie points and for people to feel sorry for you. Think of it in someone elses shoes. If I died, would it impact your life? NO. And you probably wouldn't shed a tear. You might feel bad like" Damn, that sucks, hope he is in a better place" and go on with your day and prob not think aboutit again. That is how you sound. You want people to feel sorry for you when really, nobody truthfully cares. They may feel like I said above, man that sucks, don't do it, and look to the future. But that is about it. We don't know you. We don't live your life. And most here will not care if you become homeless. You more probably wont but its just an example. Attention needs to be sought from your family and friends. If you don't have friends then go chat with your parents. And PLEASE, DO NOT, i REPEAT, DO NOT TELL THIS GIRL THATYOU ARE GOING ON THE DATE WITH YOUR PERSON PROBLEMS!!!!!!!!!!!
You will most def. lose her. I can assure you of that. Be yourself and DON'T TALK ABOUT PERSONAL BUSINESS. The same thing goes for the things you say on these boards.
Turnover a new leaf like you said. No more pity posts. I believe the ones who felt bad may start to grow callus to your cries. We are not psychologists. We do not come here to analyze and fix everyones probelms. Most come here to shoot the breeze and to see what's new. Not talk about someones personal problems.
And didn't I tell you that if you posted some more stuff like this it could bite you in the ***. ANd look you have got people fighting and bickering at eachother. Just be done with the personal stuff. Be DONE. If its something we can help you with or joke with (in good terms) by all means, post it. But your credibility is diminishing as being new as an individual without the drama. You seem to be bringing it all back again...Man, let it go. Let the past be the past. Look to the future but remember your past as to not make the same mistakes again. That goes here and in life....
Just be cool. Chill out... And go back and read that other damn post I wrote...
but let me read it anyways 
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Re: Listen
Originally Posted by Jope-K
SO MUCH FOR MAKING IT SHOR but let me read it anyways
but let me read it anyways , yeah I meant for it to be but had to throw in a few pointers...all in a days work... And I have a test and interviews all day tomorrow....
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From: Greenville Ohio
Re: Listen
Originally Posted by bikerboy
, yeah I meant for it to be but had to throw in a few pointers...all in a days work... And I have a test and interviews all day tomorrow....
Here is a shorter version. (to be sang to the cadence of stan the fan) Dude I think you need some counseling to keep your *** from bouncin off da walls when you been down some.
Try to understand, we do want you as a fan, but damn! I saw some ***** on the news the other night that made me sick. A kid your age rode his tricycle through a deep water puddle and on the back was his baby sis. She got her shoes wet, he got his butt beat I'll bet. :YEAH
Is your tea cold? Your stories old.
Is the pitty gone? Talk to Elton John.
I've gota go sit on the crapper now, I could never make it as a rapper anyhow.
I hope this message reaches you, I hope you don't pout. Oh ***** I almost forgot, how am I supposed to send this ***** out?
<-- then you have to imagine a fiddy crashing into a crash can. 
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From: Sherrills Ford, NC
Re: Listen
I personally, WILL make this short 
And, no, I'm not quoting anyone from this thread...I understand RPM has repetitiously posted this stuff on here... as EVERYONE who posted negative stuff in this thread has said at one time, DO NOT READ IT!! You are wasting YOUR own time, and taking it out on him...you see he posts a thread...why even click on it? The only reason you are doing it is to bash on him...On the directory of the forum page, it lists the title and who started it...everyone seems so "internet stressed" about his posts...YOU are the only person who has control over your mouse or tab key or whatever other way it is possible to click on the damn link...when I entered this thread, I knew what I would be reading...but I myself know that if something goes on in my life, this is actually ONE place I come to for support...its not a support system I rely on (how could i w/some of the negativity running around here), but it is an alternate place to go...I've made some great friends, found one specific great person, and would hope that if someone found my advice wise and intelligent, they'd come to me and ask for help...and I'd offer it as much as I could, under the circumstances...take it how you all want, bash me for "stickin up" for the kid...whatever...remember, its MY opinion...
*EDIT* Sorry, short enough
ALSO FOR FABES 
(utilized your 
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And to you RPM...suicide is NOT an option, please realize that...life may seem more "cheery" at the moment, but there are times it will get down again...as some know, my uncle succeeded in doing this in January, one week after the new years...and some of us now have a hatred for him...which is hidden by the love we will always have for him...no matter how hard or tough it gets, there is no place else to go but up...and please, don't start drinking to "handle" things in a more "fun" way...it only makes things worse...
And, no, I'm not quoting anyone from this thread...I understand RPM has repetitiously posted this stuff on here... as EVERYONE who posted negative stuff in this thread has said at one time, DO NOT READ IT!! You are wasting YOUR own time, and taking it out on him...you see he posts a thread...why even click on it? The only reason you are doing it is to bash on him...On the directory of the forum page, it lists the title and who started it...everyone seems so "internet stressed" about his posts...YOU are the only person who has control over your mouse or tab key or whatever other way it is possible to click on the damn link...when I entered this thread, I knew what I would be reading...but I myself know that if something goes on in my life, this is actually ONE place I come to for support...its not a support system I rely on (how could i w/some of the negativity running around here), but it is an alternate place to go...I've made some great friends, found one specific great person, and would hope that if someone found my advice wise and intelligent, they'd come to me and ask for help...and I'd offer it as much as I could, under the circumstances...take it how you all want, bash me for "stickin up" for the kid...whatever...remember, its MY opinion...*EDIT* Sorry, short enough
ALSO FOR FABES (utilized your )And to you RPM...suicide is NOT an option, please realize that...life may seem more "cheery" at the moment, but there are times it will get down again...as some know, my uncle succeeded in doing this in January, one week after the new years...and some of us now have a hatred for him...which is hidden by the love we will always have for him...no matter how hard or tough it gets, there is no place else to go but up...and please, don't start drinking to "handle" things in a more "fun" way...it only makes things worse...
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Re: Listen
I dont think Jopek is trying to be a tough guy or dog anyone, I think if you will read his other posts, thats his personality. He jokes a lot. Everyone just needs to back off a little bit, its hard to tell what people mean by just reading, we cant see facial expressions or tone of voice, just chill!!
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From: STL
Re: Listen
Originally Posted by allmoney1996
I personally, WILL make this short And, no, I'm not quoting anyone from this thread...I understand RPM has repetitiously posted this stuff on here... as EVERYONE who posted negative stuff in this thread has said at one time, DO NOT READ IT!! You are wasting YOUR own time, and taking it out on him...you see he posts a thread...why even click on it? The only reason you are doing it is to bash on him...On the directory of the forum page, it lists the title and who started it...everyone seems so "internet stressed" about his posts...YOU are the only person who has control over your mouse...when I entered this thread, I knew what I would be reading...but I myself know that if something goes on in my life, this is actually ONE place I come to for support...its not a support system I rely on (how could i w/some of the negativity running around here), but it is an alternate place to go...I've made some great friends, found one specific great person, and would hope that if someone found my advice wise and intelligent, they'd come to me and ask for help...and I'd offer it as much as I could, under the circumstances...take it how you all want, bash me for "stickin up" for the kid...whatever...remember, its MY opinion...
*EDIT* Sorry, short enough
And to you RPM...suicide is NOT an option, please realize that...life may seem more "cheery" at the moment, but there are times it will get down again...as some know, my uncle succeeded in doing this in January, one week after the new years...and some of us now have a hatred for him...which is hidden by the love we will always have for him...no matter how hard or tough it gets, there is no place else to go but up...and please, don't start drinking to "handle" things in a more "fun" way...it only makes things worse...
And, no, I'm not quoting anyone from this thread...I understand RPM has repetitiously posted this stuff on here... as EVERYONE who posted negative stuff in this thread has said at one time, DO NOT READ IT!! You are wasting YOUR own time, and taking it out on him...you see he posts a thread...why even click on it? The only reason you are doing it is to bash on him...On the directory of the forum page, it lists the title and who started it...everyone seems so "internet stressed" about his posts...YOU are the only person who has control over your mouse...when I entered this thread, I knew what I would be reading...but I myself know that if something goes on in my life, this is actually ONE place I come to for support...its not a support system I rely on (how could i w/some of the negativity running around here), but it is an alternate place to go...I've made some great friends, found one specific great person, and would hope that if someone found my advice wise and intelligent, they'd come to me and ask for help...and I'd offer it as much as I could, under the circumstances...take it how you all want, bash me for "stickin up" for the kid...whatever...remember, its MY opinion...*EDIT* Sorry, short enough
And to you RPM...suicide is NOT an option, please realize that...life may seem more "cheery" at the moment, but there are times it will get down again...as some know, my uncle succeeded in doing this in January, one week after the new years...and some of us now have a hatred for him...which is hidden by the love we will always have for him...no matter how hard or tough it gets, there is no place else to go but up...and please, don't start drinking to "handle" things in a more "fun" way...it only makes things worse...
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From: The Roughest Ghetto In The World (Ramadi, Iraq) USMC
Re: Listen
Originally Posted by allmoney1996
YOU are the only person who has control over your mouse...
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From: Chicago,Il
Re: Listen
Originally Posted by allmoney1996
I personally, WILL make this short And, no, I'm not quoting anyone from this thread...I understand RPM has repetitiously posted this stuff on here... as EVERYONE who posted negative stuff in this thread has said at one time, DO NOT READ IT!! You are wasting YOUR own time, and taking it out on him...you see he posts a thread...why even click on it? The only reason you are doing it is to bash on him...On the directory of the forum page, it lists the title and who started it...everyone seems so "internet stressed" about his posts...YOU are the only person who has control over your mouse...when I entered this thread, I knew what I would be reading...but I myself know that if something goes on in my life, this is actually ONE place I come to for support...its not a support system I rely on (how could i w/some of the negativity running around here), but it is an alternate place to go...I've made some great friends, found one specific great person, and would hope that if someone found my advice wise and intelligent, they'd come to me and ask for help...and I'd offer it as much as I could, under the circumstances...take it how you all want, bash me for "stickin up" for the kid...whatever...remember, its MY opinion...
*EDIT* Sorry, short enough
And to you RPM...suicide is NOT an option, please realize that...life may seem more "cheery" at the moment, but there are times it will get down again...as some know, my uncle succeeded in doing this in January, one week after the new years...and some of us now have a hatred for him...which is hidden by the love we will always have for him...no matter how hard or tough it gets, there is no place else to go but up...and please, don't start drinking to "handle" things in a more "fun" way...it only makes things worse...
And, no, I'm not quoting anyone from this thread...I understand RPM has repetitiously posted this stuff on here... as EVERYONE who posted negative stuff in this thread has said at one time, DO NOT READ IT!! You are wasting YOUR own time, and taking it out on him...you see he posts a thread...why even click on it? The only reason you are doing it is to bash on him...On the directory of the forum page, it lists the title and who started it...everyone seems so "internet stressed" about his posts...YOU are the only person who has control over your mouse...when I entered this thread, I knew what I would be reading...but I myself know that if something goes on in my life, this is actually ONE place I come to for support...its not a support system I rely on (how could i w/some of the negativity running around here), but it is an alternate place to go...I've made some great friends, found one specific great person, and would hope that if someone found my advice wise and intelligent, they'd come to me and ask for help...and I'd offer it as much as I could, under the circumstances...take it how you all want, bash me for "stickin up" for the kid...whatever...remember, its MY opinion...*EDIT* Sorry, short enough
And to you RPM...suicide is NOT an option, please realize that...life may seem more "cheery" at the moment, but there are times it will get down again...as some know, my uncle succeeded in doing this in January, one week after the new years...and some of us now have a hatred for him...which is hidden by the love we will always have for him...no matter how hard or tough it gets, there is no place else to go but up...and please, don't start drinking to "handle" things in a more "fun" way...it only makes things worse...
YOU'RE 100% RIGHT ON THAT ONE, but you know what, I think I choose to read his threads beacause I feel bad for the kid, believe me, I use to be cool with the kid, I even called him on the phone once to talk to him and cheer him up, now, I just *** around and try to give him some advice at the same time, if he takes it good if not then he could start loading his dads gun, cuz the abuse that he gets in this site in my opinion is one of the main reasons he tried to commit suicide (if he even did it wich I doubt I think he just said it to get attention) and if he continues to come here then soon we won't hear from him anymore at all ever cuz he'll be found in front of his computer with his brains blown or his wrists slit.
SO RPM DO YOURSELF A FAVOR AND GET THE *** OUTTA HERE
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From: Sherrills Ford, NC
Re: Listen
Originally Posted by fabes
actually you don't need your mouse, you can use the TAB key on your key board. Just wanted to give my
Originally Posted by Jope-K
YOU'RE 100% RIGHT ON THAT ONE, but you know what, I think I choose to read his threads beacause I feel bad for the kid, believe me, I use to be cool with the kid, I even called him on the phone once to talk to him and cheer him up, now, I just *** around and try to give him some advice at the same time, if he takes it good if not then he could start loading his dads gun, cuz the abuse that he gets in this site in my opinion is one of the main reasons he tried to commit suicide (if he even did it wich I doubt I think he just said it to get attention) and if he continues to come here then soon we won't hear from him anymore at all ever cuz he'll be found in front of his computer with his brains blown or his wrists slit.
SO RPM DO YOURSELF A FAVOR AND GET THE *** OUTTA HERE
SO RPM DO YOURSELF A FAVOR AND GET THE *** OUTTA HERE
**And to bikerboy...no, I'm not trying to overtake your "long post" title...my mind is just racing today...**
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From: Chicago,Il
Re: Listen
Originally Posted by allmoney1996
Fixed, for your pleasure
I was not pointing my finger at you specifically, hence the reason i did not quote anyone...but just as you ask him to listen to what you're saying, listen to what I'm saying...and I'll use myself as an example, as to not get slammed for sticking up for anyone...I personally would rather someone I care about hit me, than say something to me that hurts me...I can hit back, and I could say something back, but after the punches are thrown, and the bruises go away, its forgotten...it was petty...words have such a stronger effect on me than doing things physically...i have a very hard time forgetting those words...they often play over and over again in my head...thats the type of person I am...I am fed off emotions...and when you say something hurtful to me, whether it be by phone, face to face, online, whatever...it hits me harder than it may others...Words are very strong...and you seriously may not care, but just realize, one day this may be your son....and I'm sure you may come back with "my son will never be a ***** fu*king ****** like RPM," and thats fine...say that...but most of our parents didn't think we would be the people we are today either...so remember, your son may one day reach out for help to people he admires...and I'm sure you could only hope and pray that they give him a positive outlook on things, whether it be repetitive or not...In no way am I personally targeting you and your family...just using as an example...we've never had trouble in the past, so I'm sure you know I'm not trying to cause any now...
**And to bikerboy...no, I'm not trying to overtake your "long post" title...my mind is just racing today...**
I was not pointing my finger at you specifically, hence the reason i did not quote anyone...but just as you ask him to listen to what you're saying, listen to what I'm saying...and I'll use myself as an example, as to not get slammed for sticking up for anyone...I personally would rather someone I care about hit me, than say something to me that hurts me...I can hit back, and I could say something back, but after the punches are thrown, and the bruises go away, its forgotten...it was petty...words have such a stronger effect on me than doing things physically...i have a very hard time forgetting those words...they often play over and over again in my head...thats the type of person I am...I am fed off emotions...and when you say something hurtful to me, whether it be by phone, face to face, online, whatever...it hits me harder than it may others...Words are very strong...and you seriously may not care, but just realize, one day this may be your son....and I'm sure you may come back with "my son will never be a ***** fu*king ****** like RPM," and thats fine...say that...but most of our parents didn't think we would be the people we are today either...so remember, your son may one day reach out for help to people he admires...and I'm sure you could only hope and pray that they give him a positive outlook on things, whether it be repetitive or not...In no way am I personally targeting you and your family...just using as an example...we've never had trouble in the past, so I'm sure you know I'm not trying to cause any now...
**And to bikerboy...no, I'm not trying to overtake your "long post" title...my mind is just racing today...**
and still I throw some advice mixed with me JOKING with him.
as far as my son or anybody's son for this matter becoming the way he is, I personally his parents had a lot to do with the way he is now, if you notice he's very very attention needy, obviously he doesn't get that attention from his family and expects to get it elsewhere, I think parents really have to give a **** load of attention to their kids to avoid this, the way he's made it sound before, his parents buy him a lot of **** and think that's enough, I don't know to be honest with you, but all I can tell you is that I'm gonna continue to speak my mind and try to make him realize how fuking stupid it is for him to come in here and look for attention that his familiy should be giving him, ANSWER THIS QUESTION WITH THE TRUTH, IF HE WOULD'VE BEEN SUCCESFUL KILLING HIMSELF, WOULD YOU STILL BE THINKING ABOUT IT NOW?? personally I doubt it, but to each his own.
AND AS FAR AS BEATING HIM hmmm, I'd get my nephew to slap him a couple of times, my nephew is a year younger.
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From: Sherrills Ford, NC
Re: Listen
Originally Posted by Jope-K
I USE TO CARE, (but I take pills for that now) I would always give him good advice and the benefit of the doubt, I think I even stuck up for him once, but when you're talking to a fuking ROCK and **** don't matter to them even if it's positive input, you get sick of it after a while, it got to the point where he even talked **** to me for trying to help, THAT'S WHEN I SAID, "*** this little pineapple faced bastard, I was being cool and he won't listen maybe I oughta be an ******* and he'll like it better"
and still I throw some advice mixed with me JOKING with him.
as far as my son or anybody's son for this matter becoming the way he is, I personally his parents had a lot to do with the way he is now, obviously he doesn't get that attention from his family and expects to get it elsewhere, I think parents really have to give a **** load of attention to their kids to avoid this, the way he's made it sound before, his parents buy him a lot of **** and think that's enough, I don't know to be honest with you, but all I can tell you is that I'm gonna continue to speak my mind and try to make him realize how fuking stupid it is for him to come in here and look for attention that his familiy should be giving him, ANSWER THIS QUESTION WITH THE TRUTH, IF HE WOULD'VE BEEN SUCCESFUL KILLING HIMSELF, WOULD YOU STILL BE THINKING ABOUT IT NOW?? personally I doubt it, but to each his own.
and still I throw some advice mixed with me JOKING with him.
as far as my son or anybody's son for this matter becoming the way he is, I personally his parents had a lot to do with the way he is now, obviously he doesn't get that attention from his family and expects to get it elsewhere, I think parents really have to give a **** load of attention to their kids to avoid this, the way he's made it sound before, his parents buy him a lot of **** and think that's enough, I don't know to be honest with you, but all I can tell you is that I'm gonna continue to speak my mind and try to make him realize how fuking stupid it is for him to come in here and look for attention that his familiy should be giving him, ANSWER THIS QUESTION WITH THE TRUTH, IF HE WOULD'VE BEEN SUCCESFUL KILLING HIMSELF, WOULD YOU STILL BE THINKING ABOUT IT NOW?? personally I doubt it, but to each his own.
* but that doesn't mean we need to deface them...let the kid rant, let him post, let him whine, let him complain, whatever...if someone of "importance" on the site feels he is out of hand, then they have the means to control it...because if this was someone else who constantly bantered on and on about the same things, they would not receive the responses this guy gets...he's 16 years old for goodness sakes...you may have been the "picture perfect" teenager, but the fact of the matter is, as time goes on, parents care less and less...if this is where he comes, so be it...until someone bans him, its his right...just like its your right to respond how you so choose...i'm just asking you to look at your sensitivity level a bit more...from an adult to an adult about a kid... WHEELIES "R" US
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Re: Listen
Originally Posted by allmoney1996
If you "cared" before, and now you don't, does that mean you have to shine your negativity on him and the rest of us? Again, the only reason I am speaking directly to you is because you directly replied...I've spoken w/you before, and you don't seem like an insensitive bastard, but on here, you come across that way...Trust me, there are some people who can't get enough attention...they are everywhere...there are a number I could call out from here, but I will refrain from doing so *cannot stop anyone else from it though * but that doesn't mean we need to deface them...let the kid rant, let him post, let him whine, let him complain, whatever...if someone of "importance" on the site feels he is out of hand, then they have the means to control it...because if this was someone else who constantly bantered on and on about the same things, they would not receive the responses this guy gets...he's 16 years old for goodness sakes...you may have been the "picture perfect" teenager, but the fact of the matter is, as time goes on, parents care less and less...if this is where he comes, so be it...until someone bans him, its his right...just like its your right to respond how you so choose...i'm just asking you to look at your sensitivity level a bit more...from an adult to an adult about a kid...
* but that doesn't mean we need to deface them...let the kid rant, let him post, let him whine, let him complain, whatever...if someone of "importance" on the site feels he is out of hand, then they have the means to control it...because if this was someone else who constantly bantered on and on about the same things, they would not receive the responses this guy gets...he's 16 years old for goodness sakes...you may have been the "picture perfect" teenager, but the fact of the matter is, as time goes on, parents care less and less...if this is where he comes, so be it...until someone bans him, its his right...just like its your right to respond how you so choose...i'm just asking you to look at your sensitivity level a bit more...from an adult to an adult about a kid...look I understand your point but you don't seem to understand mine, let's leave it at that, you act however you want to with him and I'll do the same.
let it be in your conscience when he does something stupid cuz you encouraged him to come to this site.
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Re: Listen
Originally Posted by Jope-K
look I understand your point but you don't seem to understand mine, let's leave it at that, you act however you want to with him and I'll do the same.
let it be in your conscience when he does something stupid cuz you encouraged him to come to this site.
let it be in your conscience when he does something stupid cuz you encouraged him to come to this site.
But I can only hope, that letting him know some people out here don't look at him in such a negative manner all the time, or even if we do, we don't need to tell him, will ENCOURAGE him to move on from where he is at this point in his life, rather than encourage him to do something stupid...positive stuff does really work wonders some times
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Re: Listen
Originally Posted by allmoney1996
I do understand your point, i just try to live my life in a positive manner...and youre right, we can leave it, cuz i'm braindead from typing all damn day...
But I can only hope, that letting him know some people out here don't look at him in such a negative manner all the time, or even if we do, we don't need to tell him, will ENCOURAGE him to move on from where he is at this point in his life, rather than encourage him to do something stupid...positive stuff does really work wonders some times
But I can only hope, that letting him know some people out here don't look at him in such a negative manner all the time, or even if we do, we don't need to tell him, will ENCOURAGE him to move on from where he is at this point in his life, rather than encourage him to do something stupid...positive stuff does really work wonders some times
the funny part is that he brings the negativism to himself, he talks about changing and then he posts stupid ****, did you see the pic on that other thread talking about humping on I don't know whose ***?? wtf is that?? even snakes had to edit it.
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From: Sherrills Ford, NC
Re: Listen
Originally Posted by Jope-K
the funny part is that he brings the negativism to himself, he talks about changing and then he posts stupid ****, did you see the pic on that other thread talking about humping on I don't know whose ***?? wtf is that?? even snakes had to edit it.
Well, whatever the kids doing, it got our sorry asses to post 3 pages of books
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Re: Listen
Originally Posted by allmoney1996
Well, whatever the kids doing, it got our sorry asses to post 3 pages of books
I think I'm just going to leave him alone, I was talking witht he wife and she said I already try to help him and that was good, no need to fill him with negativism that he doesn't need right now, besides that, I don't want to feel guilty when he shoots himself next time he posts something stupid as usual I'll just
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Re: Listen
Originally Posted by Jope-K
I think I'm just going to leave him alone, I was talking witht he wife and she said I already try to help him and that was good, no need to fill him with negativism that he doesn't need right now, besides that, I don't want to feel guilty when he shoots himself next time he posts something stupid as usual I'll just
