LadyAliKat

sure thing i will have to it tomorrow cuz i don't have any pics of him on my computer

LewisKA

lol wait how old is he???

LadyAliKat

he's 22 will be 23 in June

LewisKA

oh ok. lol this is so funny to me. I have never even thought of meeting anyone off the internet.

LadyAliKat

well you won't be meeting him off the net-he is in Iraq at the moment
you just happen to have met me on SL so i don't think it qualifies as an internet meeting now we will just have to see what the flyboy says tomorrow that may be different

LewisKA

How long has he been in Iraq? lol. I dont even know if I really want to meet anybody, it's just weird to me. I guess I just need to get up with the times,

LadyAliKat

he has been there since FEB. I usually just end up with lots of friends all over the US so i look at it that way. Some times i get to meet them and hang out and its cool. although it is about impossible to date someone halfway across the country.

LewisKA

its hard to date someone more than an hour away.

LadyAliKat

i know. i have been with my bf for almost 3 years for the last year i was in NJ he was in NE and now we live 2 hours apart. it sucks

LewisKA

yes that definately would. I guess with deployments I can understand, but just to do it that way in general I couldn't do it. I like to cuddle too much.

LadyAliKat

Yeah i hate it but i leave for OBC in SEP for 5 months after that we will more than likely get a place together. we would be living together now but we are having issues is other words he is being an idiot

LewisKA

Arn't they always though???

LadyAliKat

yeah but if they were perfect too, then life would be boring but if only some of our wisdom would rub off on them

LewisKA

no if only they would learn some common sense.

LadyAliKat

mine has common sense at least, he is just has trust issues

LewisKA

I have trust issue too.

LadyAliKat

sometimes things happen and it is hard to be able to trust people again.
i think i am too trusting, just how i grew up, he grew up not trusting anyone even his friends.

LewisKA

Thats how I grew up too. Especially after being married and having your hubby cheat on you so now you have to go through the messy deal of divorcing him.

LadyAliKat

that would definately cause me to have some serious issues trusting people again. that sucks i'm sorry

LewisKA

not your fault. yeah it kinda messes up your head towards guys for a while.