The guy who lost his finger at stuntwars
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Re: The guy who lost his finger at stuntwars
that's ****** rough dude.. this is similar.. the first few days i called her a lot... she ignored me, we talked once, and it was ****** rough.. but i took her virginity, she's not a ****. (better not turn into one) and she's not a partier.. she's really mature and responsible.. but i hadn't tried to call her at all after the first 2 or 3 days.. i left her flowers on weds after it happened.. and that was it, she called me sunday (1 week after i had moved EVERything out, we broke up on a thursday) and said she'd call me back later in the week to see how my interview went....
I find the small talk crap just gets in the way.... 
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Re: The guy who lost his finger at stuntwars
oh my whole point of writing that was that she seems cold too... like she's trying so hard to convince herself of this, when i know she doesn't want it.. i was with her from when she was 16 to 21... she wants to be independant, but ****.. why lose a good thing over it?
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Re: The guy who lost his finger at stuntwars
was it her choice?? And you took her cherry?? The way I see it.....you showed you still cared by phone calls and flowers......she's been stand off ish......but you took the cherry......my advice Bro......wait......she'll call you.....and don't talk about your ******* interview....talk about the **** that matters.....I dunno like you love her and wish this could work, but ****'s gotta change on both sides!! I find the small talk crap just gets in the way....
I find the small talk crap just gets in the way.... Just shred mountains now
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Re: The guy who lost his finger at stuntwars
give her what she wants then.....don't bug her.....she'll call......but then again Man....be prepared......people change into like 3 different people between the age of 16-25......sometimes they change together, and sometimes they grow apart.....is this what YOU really want?? That's the real question....
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Re: The guy who lost his finger at stuntwars
i know how she is... she just wants to see what life is like single, since she hasn't experienced it, and by that i don't mean like go hook up with guys, but she wants to go out n have some fun, since life has been serious for her for a while....
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Re: The guy who lost his finger at stuntwars
take it easy there old school......maybe that's what it'll take to make her see what she has......now if she bangs another dude.....I'm with ya.....just try to be understanding.......if you want this to work, there are gonna be parts you're not gonna like but it's the end result that really matters.
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Re: The guy who lost his finger at stuntwars
give her what she wants then.....don't bug her.....she'll call......but then again Man....be prepared......people change into like 3 different people between the age of 16-25......sometimes they change together, and sometimes they grow apart.....is this what YOU really want?? That's the real question....
although my girl likes that i'm a little immature at times - keeps things fun
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Re: The guy who lost his finger at stuntwars
take it easy there old school......maybe that's what it'll take to make her see what she has......now if she bangs another dude.....I'm with ya.....just try to be understanding.......if you want this to work, there are gonna be parts you're not gonna like but it's the end result that really matters.
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Re: The guy who lost his finger at stuntwars
take it easy there old school......maybe that's what it'll take to make her see what she has......now if she bangs another dude.....I'm with ya.....just try to be understanding.......if you want this to work, there are gonna be parts you're not gonna like but it's the end result that really matters.
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Re: The guy who lost his finger at stuntwars
that's the thing, when she called last sunday, we talked for 2 hours, and she didn't wanna talk about relationship stuff.. she just wanted to tell me about how the dogs were, and what she's been doin, and asked what i been doin... really ****** confusing.. yeah bro, i dated her for 4 mnths without sex.. it was her idea, i never badgered her about it, cuz i loved her and it wasn't THAT important to me, iiiiii dunno... i want like 3 monthns to pass so i can see what happens and not feel like this bullshit.
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Re: The guy who lost his finger at stuntwars
as many times as i did just that - hind sight is 20/20 don't give her the satisfaction of getting you mad because of her actions - just let her know NO ONE will ever be as good as you were for her. my guess is if she was with you she a) doesn't want one of those douche bags and b) will see right through them.
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Just shred mountains now
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From: Corpus Christi and Houston Tx
Re: The guy who lost his finger at stuntwars
as many times as i did just that - hind sight is 20/20 don't give her the satisfaction of getting you mad because of her actions - just let her know NO ONE will ever be as good as you were for her. my guess is if she was with you she a) doesn't want one of those douche bags and b) will see right through them.
