Girls always blaming the guy when they get knocked up

[Tenny]

DAMNIT WHORES |rant| when you get pregnant stop with the whole the man needs to own up and do all this shit. its not just thier fault. you shoulda been on birth control. you shoulda made sure they were wearing a condom. you shoulda stopped ****ing guys you just meet and then get mad when they dont want to stick with you for the rest of your life when you pop out thier bastad child. it doesn't work that way. i see to many girls just blaming everythign on the guy because they cannot take responsiblility for being a whore also. it takes 2 to fock and 2 to have a baby. if you were on birth control (take some responsiblity for yourself) most of the time you woudln't get knocked up. if you MADE SURE they were wearing a condom you prolly wouldnt' have gotten knocked up. if you are a whore (no problem with that) and you plan on focking a guy why not carry around a condom in your purse? tell them they have to wear it or no penis in my vigina. WHAM BAM your problem is solved. If you are knocked up then see what the guy says. if he wants you to get an abortion and you dont. Then dont tell him hes not maning up its the fact that he just met you and doesn't want a focking kid. Just have the damned kid and put him up for adoption. If not that then raise him and let him grow up and then goto jail. Take some responsibility for yourself before always blaming the guy. DAMN |/rant|

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[ryanaka99cents]

Originally Posted by Tenny44

DAMNIT WHORES

|rant|
when you get pregnant stop with the whole the man needs to own up and do all this shit. its not just thier fault. you shoulda been on birth control. you shoulda made sure they were wearing a condom. you shoulda stopped ****ing guys you just meet and then get mad when they dont want to stick with you for the rest of your life when you pop out thier bastad child. it doesn't work that way. i see to many girls just blaming everythign on the guy because they cannot take responsiblility for being a whore also. it takes 2 to fock and 2 to have a baby. if you were on birth control (take some responsiblity for yourself) most of the time you woudln't get knocked up. if you MADE SURE they were wearing a condom you prolly wouldnt' have gotten knocked up. if you are a whore (no problem with that) and you plan on focking a guy why not carry around a condom in your purse? tell them they have to wear it or no penis in my vigina. WHAM BAM your problem is solved. If you are knocked up then see what the guy says. if he wants you to get an abortion and you dont. Then dont tell him hes not maning up its the fact that he just met you and doesn't want a focking kid. Just have the damned kid and put him up for adoption. If not that then raise him and let him grow up and then goto jail. Take some responsibility for yourself before always blaming the guy.

DAMN

|/rant|

can't say this big enoughA FU(KING MEN

[Somegirl]

Originally Posted by Tenny44

DAMNIT WHORES

|rant|
when you get pregnant stop with the whole the man needs to own up and do all this shit. its not just thier fault. you shoulda been on birth control. you shoulda made sure they were wearing a condom. you shoulda stopped ****ing guys you just meet and then get mad when they dont want to stick with you for the rest of your life when you pop out thier bastad child. it doesn't work that way. i see to many girls just blaming everythign on the guy because they cannot take responsiblility for being a whore also. it takes 2 to fock and 2 to have a baby. if you were on birth control (take some responsiblity for yourself) most of the time you woudln't get knocked up. if you MADE SURE they were wearing a condom you prolly wouldnt' have gotten knocked up. if you are a whore (no problem with that) and you plan on focking a guy why not carry around a condom in your purse? tell them they have to wear it or no penis in my vigina. WHAM BAM your problem is solved. If you are knocked up then see what the guy says. if he wants you to get an abortion and you dont. Then dont tell him hes not maning up its the fact that he just met you and doesn't want a focking kid. Just have the damned kid and put him up for adoption. If not that then raise him and let him grow up and then goto jail. Take some responsibility for yourself before always blaming the guy.

DAMN

|/rant|

Your rant was hardly intelligent ot warrent a reply. BUT both parties involved have responsibility in the matter. Women deserve as much sexual freedom as men, but both genders need to know to choose their partner(s) wisely.

[Brian~11]

Both are responsible. The guy is also responsible if he didn't wear protection.
If she chooses not to have a abortion thats her decision. And she won't have to get you to man up. The Courts will!

[RRQT]

K - If you get a girl pregnant it is definatley your responsibilty to follow through and take care of the child. Seems that you have gotten yourself into a tough situation ... Is it your life you are ranting about?

On a side note ... this thread is about a very touchy subject and some people that have truely gotten pregnant on accident and might not believe in abortion might get REALLY offended ...

I suggest it gets deleted .... and FAST!

[cal]

holy shit ryanaka99cents you read my mind

Of course women deserve the sexual freedom but they cant have it because of the extra risk involved

A FU(KING MEN!

[ryanaka99cents]

very very true this is a touchy thread, but I was always taught - IF YOU PLAY YOU GOTTA PAY! end of my discussion (maybe) on this topic

[covertwar]

Originally Posted by SugaR6

Your rant was hardly intelligent ot warrent a reply. BUT both parties involved have responsibility in the matter. Women deserve as much sexual freedom as men, but both genders need to know to choose their partner(s) wisely.

You beautiful ladies are entirely correct, but this man was emphasising the fact that many <b>girls</b> tend to squarely put blame on a man for impregnating her, even though they had consensual intercourse.

Yes, he made it very clear that both parties are responsible, I do not see why his post is irrelevent or unintelligent, it may be slighty distorted or hostile due to rage, but it still does place the burden of child-bearing on both parties.

Sincerely,

[ryanaka99cents]

1st thanx Cal.

2nd RRQT I read Tenny's rant again and he's not so much saying that he doesn't want to help take care of the child or make them get it aborted. He's talking about the girls that have 5 or 6 kids with 5 or 6 different fathers or at least I think he is. Those woman are whores and have nothing to bitch about because they've figured out our very LIBERAL DEMOCRATIC GOV'T that wants each and everyone one of us to depend on them instead of making a go of it on our own and make a respectful living. Thanks to a dumbass who walked around the oral office with his pants around his ankles we have women aka whores who know the more kids they have with different men the more money the gov't will give them along with what they get in child support. Those bitches are the one Tenny is talking about.

p.s. and no I've never had this happen to me, I don't fu(k whores

[Somegirl]

Originally Posted by covertwar

You beautiful ladies are entirely correct, but this man was emphasising the fact that many <b>girls</b> tend to squarely put blame on a man for impregnating her, even though they had consensual intercourse.

Yes, he made it very clear that both parties are responsible, I do not see why his post is irrelevent or unintelligent, it may be slighty distorted or hostile due to rage, but it still does place the burden of child-bearing on both parties.

Sincerely,

It does however imply that women who have sex are whores. If a woman is involved with a man she barely knows, well then the man is involved with a woman he barely knows. So he is equally responsible and if he is not to be faulted for his morality neither should she. And as for having sex with 'girls' perhaps the relative maturity of consenting individual should be considered PRIOR to intercourse. Regardless the man is at least financially responsible for the child, though it takes more than a check to raise a child.

[covertwar]

Originally Posted by SugaR6

It does however imply that women who have sex are whores. If a woman is involved with a man she barely knows, well then the man is involved with a woman he barely knows. So he is equally responsible and if he is not to be faulted for his morality neither should she. And as for having sex with 'girls' perhaps the relative maturity of consenting individual should be considered PRIOR to intercourse. Regardless the man is at least financially responsible for the child, though it takes more than a check to raise a child.

There are respectable women in the world, in no way should that thread be indicative of an attitude that demeans <b>every single woman in the world</b>, nor is that man trying to say he has an eagle eye in the world, that man is only talking about a cross section of the female population.

With respect, come on it's Tenny, since when is he an agent of political correctness??

[RRQT]

All I'm saying is that it can be taken the wrong way by some people. If some men just kept their dicks in their pants we wouldn't seem to have these problems either. I think it is unfair to expect the woman to get an abortion to ... (well I won't get into my views on abortion because this isn't an appropriate topic either) ... but I think the fact that he stated that if a woman does not want to get an abortion than it needs to be a problem that she takes care of is just wrong. Your right, he did say it takes two to tango ... and it does ... but it also takes two to not put on the condom or a guy needs to ask a woman straight out if she is on birth control or not. It takes 2 to make a child ... And it is not fair to say that the child will end up in jail ... Then he uses the adoption thing ...

1) I guess you shouldn't be sleeping with whores or people you just met - then you won't have the problem of getting someone pregnant that you could not see yourself raising a child with.

2) If you are big enough and man enough to play than you should be big enough to pay the consequences (this goes for women too).

3) ABORTION SHOULD NOT BE USED AS A FORM OF BIRTH CONTROL!

Sorry - Like I said - it is a touchy subject that could hit a lot of bad notes with a lot of people and bring up a lot of subjects that perhaps should not be discussed ... Not saying that he didn't have the right to rant ... but perhaps he should have done it somewhere else ...

[covertwar]

Yeah I know quite a few chicks that wait for their child support check so they can "get their haiiiiiiirrrrr done," etc. Those kids half the time don't see any of that money, and like somebody said, a check alone isn't taking care of their child, but their mom won't even let the man come around their kids?!! Every child has the right to see his or her father, no matter what. I don't care if he is a serial killer, have 25 people in the room with them, but still that is their father. If they want to see him they have the right.

Of course, this argument can go both ways and possibly apply to reverse sexes before soembody pounces on me.

[Shaggy]

I personally am not going to delete it because for once a man has the ballz to speak the truth.

You people just can't handle the truth. For anyone that yells "BE A MAN", you're completely whack. Let yourself be in that position - what are you yelling now? Your whack ass war cry of "BE A MAN" has probably changed to "OH GOD, WHY ME?!?!" Once she get's knocked up, all decisions lie on her. She can make a decision that will effect you for the rest of your life. It's entirely her decision and you have ABSOLUTELY NO INPUT on the matter, yet if she decides to keep it, guess what ....40% of your paycheck for the next 18 years. Nice huh! You go ahead, be a man. I'll be the one saying WTF?!?! If I can't be included on the decisions, then I won't be included on the financial responsibilities either.

Why don't women take advantage of the dozens of birth control options you have available to you. Instead leave it enitrely up to the guy, smart move... then blame the guy when you get knocked up - what? You weren't there?!?!? You didn't know your risks?!!?!? WTF?!?!?

What if the condom breaks? The guy used protection and it failed, what did the woman use? Nothing? Oh, ok ...blame the guy, that's the answer! He at least tried to prevent a pregnancy, what did you do? His method failed, did you have a back up? No? Oh well, it's the guys financial responsibility now, even though he tried to be safe. You weren't so he'll just have to pay. Maybe had you been on SOMETHING, ANYTHING, you wouldn't have gotten pregnant. It's ok CHILDREN, you can use more than one, it's not like your high school tests where only one answer is right. Go ahead use the spermicidal gel while you are on the pill and still make him wear a rubber, really, it's ok.

The woman has options with a pregnancy. A guy does not. If the woman chooses adoption or abortion the guy has no say in it. IF she chooses to keep the baby, the guy is now financially responsible. What if he chose adoption or abortion? Does it matter? What if he wanted to keep it? Again, does it really matter? Womans choice = womans responsibility.

Women want to be considerd "EQUALS", then start taking more responsibilities for your actions and bodies. I'm not saying it's not the guys partial fault - but I'm personally sick of hearing people blaming guys and bad mouthing guys for having opinions....especially other guys -what panty wastes!

Why is it if a woman sleeps with alot of guys she's considered a slut boo freaking hoo! Well, read the definition in websters dumb asses. If you KNEW you would be considered a slut when you slept with all those guys, and it bothered you, why did you do it?!?!?!

I don't want to be called a pedophile so guess what, I don't touch children! DUH!!!!

CAN'T ANYONE TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEIR OWN ACTIONS ANYMORE?!?! Blame the parents, blame the schools, blame the foreigners, blame the guy just don't blame yourself! Whatever you do.


You're right RRQT it is a touchy subject, how can you tell?

[cal]

goo' lord!

nice post, well done

[covertwar]

My man, Shaggy, if we had a respected users list here, you would be the one on the top!

[covertwar]

You explained my basic dillemma I had last year TO THE LETTER. I am crushed by the miscarriage, but right now after talking to several wise people and looking at how I can live my life freely and set up a good foundation for the children I will God Willing have many years later after marriage, I a complacent and see how destiny determines fate.

Thank you once again Shaggy, I have tried to sit down and think of all this myself in the past year but the feelings were too much!

[Shaggy]

Background story:

I was dating this girl couple years after high school.

She was on the pill but I still used rubbers, can't be too safe.

New Years Eve 1993, we're at a party, at midnight we decided to get it on in the bathroom.

Rubber breaks - no big deal, she's on the pill. I decide I still better pull out. Well, she had other plans and wraps her legs around me... ok, little pissed but what the hell ...she's on the pill.

Couple months later she tells me she's pregnant. She then informed me that she stopped taking the pill, it was getting too expensive.

I ask her to marry me - stupid thought but heat of the moment type shit.

She says "no".... then says she wants to break up.

I tell her I don't want my child being raised without a father like I was, maybe we should discuss the alternatives ie: adoption / abortion

She says "no" ...then says she's having the baby.

Keep in mind, we're two broke azz mutha ****as at this point too.

She tells her parents - huge fight blah blah

They tell me to "BE A MAN AND STEP UP AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR WHAT I DID TO THEIR PRECIOUS LITTLE ANGEL OF A DAUGHTER" who took it in the azz BTW and guzzled c*m like a champ.

I tell them I tried and asked her to marry me blah blah

No, not that kind of responsibility, FINANCIAL responsibility. They don't want me in her life at all, nor in the childs life.... But they do want me to pay for it.

Long story short, she was screwing around on me the whole time and 10 years later I don't know if he's even mine or not and have never laid eyes on him.

I told them that before a single cent is shelled out, there would be a DNA test and I WOULD have joint custody. Needles to say, she hasn't asked for a dime, and even married one of the guys she was cheating on me with.

Yet, I'm told to be a man - I was, but she wasn't a woman, she was a god damned child (mentally).

So where were my big decisions? Where were my choices? I did everything right, yet I am yelled at and told to be a man by her father.

It touched a nerve -sorry

Odd side note: Being that we were dating for 2 years, we had discussed everything. Late nights laying in bed just rambling. I told her that my first son I wanted to name after my late grandfather and my late. My wife could name the girls ....and my second son I wanted to have a cool name, something unique..... like maybe Devin. That's the bastards name, Devin. Guess she like the name more than she liked me.

[Brian~11]

Heres your answer. Don't have sex unless you're married and you won't have to deal w/ it. Be a Man marry her first/be a Woman marry him first.

Is it gonna happen....Well no...This topic will always be there.

So....You're wasting your breath but polishing your typing skill's.


Maybe it needs to be talked about,but not like this or laid out on a motorcycle form.

[JennR6er]

Originally Posted by ROCK~N~929

Heres your answer. Don't have sex unless you're married and you won't have to deal w/ it. Be a Man marry her first/be a Woman marry him first.

Is it gonna happen....Well no...This topic will always be there.

So....You're wasting your breath but polishing your typing skill's.


Maybe it needs to be talked about,but not like this or laid out on a motorcycle form.

Don't know where this topic came from... but I am agreeing with him.... It is a very touchy subject that doesn't need to be talked about on a motorcycle forum....

And also stating this.... not all women who have had a child out of wedlock want to screw the child's father.... nor take that child away from him.... especially if it was a planned pregnancy on both parts.... Or a wanted child in the firt place, and the parents just can't seem to get things right in their relationship....

And to the original post.... sounds like someone wasn't wearing any protection on either side....