suicide

wheeliekid · 10-14-2003, 06:18 PM

A gurl that i know recently commit suicide......All i want to know it why.she was a pretty kool gurl.she had a bf and lots of friends. how could it be that she wanted to give it all up.Its really sad that she had to take her own life for a temporary problem.If any of you have any words of wisdom to help me get through this, it would be greatly appreciated

RIP Jamie Zink

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gixxer750rider · 10-14-2003, 06:30 PM

yeh wheelie im sorry bro i know how you feel my buddy of mine commited suicide a couple of years ago

RIP Jamie Zink

mead_hall · 10-14-2003, 06:31 PM

yea man that sucks.. i thought about it before but there is so much to live for... its always hard to understand why.. sorry to hear that..

covertwar · 10-14-2003, 06:32 PM

i gots to deal with that all the time, people just feel so down because of other people not noticing them

wheeliekid · 10-14-2003, 06:37 PM

our school had a group session with the counselor and we all went around tellin what our favorite moment was with her.It helped alot but i dont think the pain will ever go away completly.it will remain in my mind for years to come

Paligurl2 · 10-14-2003, 06:39 PM

im really sorry too

death in general is something so difficult to comprehend let alone trying to understand y someone would want to take thier own life...dont ask urself y..becuz once u open that up people have a tendency to start to place blame...the only thing i can tell u is that it will get better and dont take anything or any one for granted good luck

cal · 10-14-2003, 06:49 PM

When you lose someone, don't lose the lesson.

wheeliekid · 10-14-2003, 06:52 PM

A quote from one of my friends about Jamie ''Just because shes gone duznt mean you have to forget about her

120clown · 10-14-2003, 06:59 PM

dam bro!........ i know how that feels. my uncle jamie did so. there was no sign of anything no warnings we just found him in his room one day. never forget who they were and never forget the things they have tought you! and always think of them as you remember them the good things! having a lot of freinds, her making her boyfreind happy. thats what i would do...... keep your head up!

wheeliekid · 10-14-2003, 07:02 PM

thanks for all the hepl.I never thought about it happen to me. it started out with my brother (attemping) and now this.

wheeliekid · 10-14-2003, 07:07 PM

my brother is doin fine now....he found out its not worth it. he has so much to look forward to.and to comit suicide over a gurl is the dumbest thing someone can do

paragus · 10-14-2003, 07:56 PM

my friend in FL just commited suicide a few weeks ago. He had a wife, and a baby girl. And he just did it outta no where, i also have no idea why. But sometimes you just wont have the answers for everything, its just life. Just stay up, remember her, and try to keep goin on. "keep on keepin on" - Joe dirtay (tryin to bring some light in)

cal · 10-14-2003, 08:02 PM

yeah for joe dirt thats actually a great saying

Its a tragically permanant solution for a temporary problem

rcprincesa · 10-14-2003, 08:09 PM

Oh babies, I am sooooo sorry.

How awful. Suicide is so horrible because you have to wonder how much inner turmoil was going on inside that person to want to take their own life. I know how it feels to want to die, but it's not the answer. There is so much to life, to want to not experience it all. It's just that, there are times in life, where there are so many things going wrong at once, you feel like giving up. But we've all got to keep going, no matter what. I know the pain and shock you're feeling, and the burning question of WHY, must be driving you crazy. But don't let it. Like someone else said, some things in life will remain unanswered. When it's a death, that's a hard thing to accept. But hang in there sweetie. Lean on friends for support and try and be there for her family, friends, and/or boyfriend, if you can. Maybe send her parents a card or flowers. Although the loss of a child is a pain that no words can heal. Sympathetic and loving gestures go a long way. I hope you feel better sweetie. Remember to talk about your feelings to people that are close to you. The worst thing you can do is hold it all in. *BIG HUG*

wheeliekid · 10-14-2003, 08:10 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by cal

Its a tragically permanant solution for a temporary problem

Yea I know that but i dont think she did.I know in 8th grade when we had the yellow ribbon assembly, noone paid attention to it. And now i wish that i did

larriken · 10-14-2003, 08:50 PM

One of my good friends killed himself a few years ago. Never saw it coming and to be honest I don't think anybody had the slightest idea that things weren't good for him. Usual stuff, he was popular, he had an awesome girlfriend, he was the NZ Motorcycle Trials Champion. He had even just scored a sponsered deal to ride in Europe! But at the end of the day we really have no idea what's going on in someone's head. If they don't talk about it, share, then it things just seem worse for them I think. Pretty sad when you can see no way to solve your problems expect to end it. Now each year on the anniversary of his death we have a burnout compitition for cars and bikes. I think he would have approved.

wheeliekid · 10-14-2003, 09:02 PM

[quote]Originally posted by larriken
Now each year on the anniversary of his death we have a burnout compitition for cars and bikes. I think he would have approved. [/QUO

even tho i dont know him, i think he would approve of it too....it lets him know that you havent forgotten about him and never will

nicky1.8t · 10-14-2003, 09:35 PM

im sorry i had a friend recently kill him self over a stupid girl

10-14-2003, 06:30 PM	#2
gixxer750rider Registered User Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: San Fran/Bay Area, California Age: 29 Bike: 2002 Suzuki GSX-R 750 , One Crunchy Honda F4i Gender: Male Posts: 3,661	yeh wheelie im sorry bro i know how you feel my buddy of mine commited suicide a couple of years ago RIP Jamie Zink __________________ [b]BIKES:[/b] [b][color=blue]2002 SUZUKI GSX-[/color]R 750[/b] [b][color=red]2002 HONDA CBR 600 F4[/color][color=yellow]i[/color][/b] [b]Moderator[/b] - Im watching you all!! Founder of NorCalStunters Stunt Team And Representing Dixies Fearless (Hot Fresh new stunt team outta alabama) for more info on Dixies Fearless contact/PM BetoWzp.

10-14-2003, 06:31 PM	#3
mead_hall Registered User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Orlandho Florida Age: 29 Bike: nine hundred RR Gender: Male Posts: 550	yea man that sucks.. i thought about it before but there is so much to live for... its always hard to understand why.. sorry to hear that.. __________________ Mead-Hall We bring the rise to the streets if u feel want i mean.. spoone.cjb.net Once out in the company of solitude, the crashing sound is a few yards behind you, you turn around and hope that your next ride will be as close to greatness as the great blue... but wait, the blue is upon you, protecting you from the outside, and you are trying your hardest to be deeper into the pit, the protective covering, the best and longest 6 seconds of your life. And at last,the shinning light of day comes upon you and you realize........... I can not be closer to god..

10-14-2003, 06:37 PM	#5
wheeliekid crackwhore Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Fluffy Mitten Age: 20 Bike: Hoffman Disrupter Gender: Male Posts: 3,077	our school had a group session with the counselor and we all went around tellin what our favorite moment was with her.It helped alot but i dont think the pain will ever go away completly.it will remain in my mind for years to come __________________ www.myspace.com/consumethesea

10-14-2003, 06:52 PM	#8
wheeliekid crackwhore Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Fluffy Mitten Age: 20 Bike: Hoffman Disrupter Gender: Male Posts: 3,077	A quote from one of my friends about Jamie ''Just because shes gone duznt mean you have to forget about her __________________ www.myspace.com/consumethesea

10-14-2003, 06:59 PM	#9
120clown JUST CLOWNING! Join Date: May 2003 Location: Green Bay, WI Age: 25 Bike: 03 636 Gender: Male Posts: 2,293	dam bro!........ i know how that feels. my uncle jamie did so. there was no sign of anything no warnings we just found him in his room one day. never forget who they were and never forget the things they have tought you! and always think of them as you remember them the good things! having a lot of freinds, her making her boyfreind happy. thats what i would do...... keep your head up! __________________ write that down...

10-14-2003, 06:32 PM	#4
covertwar I Love To Post! Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: around Age: 25 Bike: F3, ZX-6R, R6 Gender: Male Posts: 6,593	i gots to deal with that all the time, people just feel so down because of other people not noticing them

10-14-2003, 06:39 PM	#6
Paligurl2 Registered User Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Lemont, IL Age: 27 Bike: .......... Gender: Female Posts: 928	im really sorry too death in general is something so difficult to comprehend let alone trying to understand y someone would want to take thier own life...dont ask urself y..becuz once u open that up people have a tendency to start to place blame...the only thing i can tell u is that it will get better and dont take anything or any one for granted good luck

10-14-2003, 06:49 PM	#7
cal I Chose to No Longer Post Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Tampa FL Age: 24 Bike: . Gender: Male Posts: 2,700	When you lose someone, don't lose the lesson.

10-14-2003, 07:02 PM	#10
wheeliekid crackwhore Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Fluffy Mitten Age: 20 Bike: Hoffman Disrupter Gender: Male Posts: 3,077	thanks for all the hepl.I never thought about it happen to me. it started out with my brother (attemping) and now this. __________________ www.myspace.com/consumethesea

10-14-2003, 07:07 PM	#11
wheeliekid crackwhore Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Fluffy Mitten Age: 20 Bike: Hoffman Disrupter Gender: Male Posts: 3,077	my brother is doin fine now....he found out its not worth it. he has so much to look forward to.and to comit suicide over a gurl is the dumbest thing someone can do __________________ www.myspace.com/consumethesea

10-14-2003, 07:56 PM	#12
paragus awww **** motorcycles! Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: FL Age: 28 Bike: 636 Gender: Male Posts: 2,950	my friend in FL just commited suicide a few weeks ago. He had a wife, and a baby girl. And he just did it outta no where, i also have no idea why. But sometimes you just wont have the answers for everything, its just life. Just stay up, remember her, and try to keep goin on. "keep on keepin on" - Joe dirtay (tryin to bring some light in) __________________ www.atlanticcycleservice.com

10-14-2003, 08:02 PM	#13
cal I Chose to No Longer Post Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Tampa FL Age: 24 Bike: . Gender: Male Posts: 2,700	yeah for joe dirt thats actually a great saying Its a tragically permanant solution for a temporary problem

10-14-2003, 08:09 PM	#14
rcprincesa Registered User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Southern Cali Age: 29 Bike: Dream bike - R6 with dark purple flames Gender: Posts: 964	Oh babies, I am sooooo sorry. How awful. Suicide is so horrible because you have to wonder how much inner turmoil was going on inside that person to want to take their own life. I know how it feels to want to die, but it's not the answer. There is so much to life, to want to not experience it all. It's just that, there are times in life, where there are so many things going wrong at once, you feel like giving up. But we've all got to keep going, no matter what. I know the pain and shock you're feeling, and the burning question of WHY, must be driving you crazy. But don't let it. Like someone else said, some things in life will remain unanswered. When it's a death, that's a hard thing to accept. But hang in there sweetie. Lean on friends for support and try and be there for her family, friends, and/or boyfriend, if you can. Maybe send her parents a card or flowers. Although the loss of a child is a pain that no words can heal. Sympathetic and loving gestures go a long way. I hope you feel better sweetie. Remember to talk about your feelings to people that are close to you. The worst thing you can do is hold it all in. BIG HUG __________________ ~* The Fiesty One *~ "If ya fall, stand tall and come back for more" Tupac "Baby don't cry, ya got to keep ya head up, even when the road is hard, never give up" Tupac [mover] ~ Miss Rebecca ~ [/mover] [movel] ~ Miss Rebecca ~ [/movel]

10-14-2003, 08:50 PM	#16
larriken Registered User Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: New Zealand Age: 35 Bike: Blade Gender: Male Posts: 1,682	One of my good friends killed himself a few years ago. Never saw it coming and to be honest I don't think anybody had the slightest idea that things weren't good for him. Usual stuff, he was popular, he had an awesome girlfriend, he was the NZ Motorcycle Trials Champion. He had even just scored a sponsered deal to ride in Europe! But at the end of the day we really have no idea what's going on in someone's head. If they don't talk about it, share, then it things just seem worse for them I think. Pretty sad when you can see no way to solve your problems expect to end it. Now each year on the anniversary of his death we have a burnout compitition for cars and bikes. I think he would have approved. __________________ Aol:larriken111

10-14-2003, 09:02 PM	#17
wheeliekid crackwhore Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Fluffy Mitten Age: 20 Bike: Hoffman Disrupter Gender: Male Posts: 3,077	[quote]Originally posted by larriken Now each year on the anniversary of his death we have a burnout compitition for cars and bikes. I think he would have approved. [/QUO even tho i dont know him, i think he would approve of it too....it lets him know that you havent forgotten about him and never will __________________ www.myspace.com/consumethesea

10-14-2003, 09:35 PM	#18
nicky1.8t Registered User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: attleboro mass Age: 26 Bike: 02 cbr 954 rr Gender: Posts: 121	im sorry i had a friend recently kill him self over a stupid girl __________________ make wheelies