Head first into hot water - Page 4 - Female Riders

SYTFU_R6 · 05-22-2006, 04:24 AM

my boy cheats on his girlfriend like he takes showers, but it isnt because he doesnt love her.... he loves the shit out of her, it is just like a hobby to him. its like he likes the stress of it, he likes to be questioned or something, like a game to him in some way.

if it came to his relation ship and the girls he runs with i doubt he choose against his girl, but i know he would be back to the same old tricks again if he stopped.

cheating on some one is really one of those things that are a tightrope walk.... cheating most of the time comes from curiosity, and i know from personal experience. i have not cheated..... well yeah i did, but the circumstances were so ****ed up. it was an emotion thing, and i tried to make right what i wronged, and i was totally honest with the girl that i cheated on. but to no avail i still did what i did.....

my situation was that i had broken up with this one girl of 6 years, and i jumped into another relation ship too quick without letting my self heal. that is a main cause of cheating to tell the truth, fellas get a girl they dig(or vice versa.), and she is all so friendly and they hookup. she tells em about a ex and the guy is all cool about it, then later on in the relationship they cheat on em with the infamous "eX".

other times, it isnt that the guy doesnt love his girl.... he just sees something that either his girl isnt, or something that is totally easy to get. guys and girls alike are that way, it is just depending on what the individuals restraints are. either they can just look and not touch, or they can rob the cookie jar.

ok so sorry for butting my male testosterone in on your female discussion, i will exit now.

T-Dubby · 06-13-2006, 05:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Dizzel

yep.. there are alot of ones out there that dont have g/f's.. but sometimes it the guys fault too cause they dont share that info.. but i say if he looks taken.. he prolly is.. 7 out 10 are...

How does a guy look taken if he's not with another girl?? So it's the guys purpose to advertise he's single.. Next time i go out I'll wear a sign.. Hi. I'm Single

T-Dubby · 06-13-2006, 06:03 PM

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Originally Posted by crisg555

I feel the same. I could never cheat on anyone. First off, I would not want it done to me, and plus it's so dishonest. I have a big conscience.

I had one friend tell me that married men are off limits, but if the guy has a g/f and he's out drinking and clubing and flirting, then he must not be serious w/his girl. I told her I would not even talk to the guy, she's like I would..

when I was single, I would go clubing just for the dancing, music, and drinking. A club is not a place to meet guys. just my

Yeah i don't believe that a club is a healthy place to meet people but honestly I don't see where else you could meet people if your not in: college, going to church, etc.

Cathi · 06-13-2006, 06:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Disturbed6R

How does a guy look taken if he's not with another girl?? So it's the guys purpose to advertise he's single.. Next time i go out I'll wear a sign.. Hi. I'm Single

sorry... i had to post it ..

(this is an actual t shirt)

T-Dubby · 06-13-2006, 08:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Cathi

sorry... i had to post it ..

(this is an actual t shirt)

HAHAHA awesome.. I'd so wear that. I like to wear sarcastic shirts. I got one from Hollister that said " And your name was what again?"

zxcraig · 06-13-2006, 08:42 PM

once and i still feal like shit when i think about it. gee thanks for reopening that wound. now where is that salt????

skillz954 · 06-14-2006, 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by FoxyLadyF4i

I cheated on someone once about 5 years ago. It was an unhealthy relationship, I was angry and extremely intoxicated. I actually don't even really remember if anything actually happened but because of the situation I'm assuming something happened that shouldn't. It was the worst thing I have ever done. Not entirely because I had hurt someone who cared about me, but that I actually commited a low, dirty, sum-bag act and now have to live with that.

Did the BF at the time find out?? Did you tell him??

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Originally Posted by FoxyLadyF4i

Alcohol impares your judgement, but is no excuse.

Truth serum if you ask me.....poor excuse though!!

skillz954 · 06-14-2006, 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by crisg555

I was cheated on before, and it really sucks. the whole feeling of it. You have a hard time finding someone you can trust afterwards. It took me while, but I found someone I could trust. Even after my fiance/I got together, I still had a hard time trusting. You have that feeling of not wanting to get hurt again.

wanna hear something wierd......I was with a girl I really loved but she was not at all physical due to a bad expirience when she was younger....so yes eventually I cheated on her, and that seemed to keep everyone happy....(short term of course) But since the demise of our relationship I have not been able to trust people because I know what I did and how easy it was to get away with and I fear it'll happen to me.....wierd how it does damage on both ends huh??

RRQT · 06-14-2006, 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by skillz954

wanna hear something wierd......I was with a girl I really loved but she was not at all physical due to a bad expirience when she was younger....so yes eventually I cheated on her, and that seemed to keep everyone happy....(short term of course) But since the demise of our relationship I have not been able to trust people because I know what I did and how easy it was to get away with and I fear it'll happen to me.....wierd how it does damage on both ends huh??

It only damaged you cause you actually have a heart - a lot of people can cheat on someone else and never think twice about it ... sad really.

On a different note off topic real fast - I was just looking at the new posts section and skillz's was the last poster in close to every thread ... LOL ...

skillz954 · 06-14-2006, 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by RRQT

It only damaged you cause you actually have a heart - a lot of people can cheat on someone else and never think twice about it ... sad really.

On a different note off topic real fast - I was just looking at the new posts section and skillz's was the last poster in close to every thread ... LOL ...

I was bored this morning leave me alone........and I don't have a heart I'm a mother fvcking toughguy!!

RRQT · 06-14-2006, 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by skillz954

I was bored this morning leave me alone........and I don't have a heart I'm a mother fvcking toughguy!!

Liar Liar pants on fire ... I have the proof - I still have pics of Olivia and squishy ... LOL ...

skillz954 · 06-14-2006, 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by RRQT

Liar Liar pants on fire ... I have the proof - I still have pics of Olivia and squishy ... LOL ...

1, 2, 3, 4, FIFTH!!! I plead the 5th!!

RRQT · 06-14-2006, 01:02 PM

We are getting this thread VERY

... with our post whoring ...

skillz954 · 06-14-2006, 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by RRQT

We are getting this thread VERY

... with our post whoring ...

so stop PW'in post whore!!

Cathi · 06-14-2006, 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by skillz954

I was bored this morning leave me alone........and I don't have a heart I'm a mother fvcking toughguy!!

i can prove you have a softy side :YEAH

skillz954 · 06-19-2006, 10:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Cathi

i can prove you have a softy side :YEAH

let's just let it go...sound good?? K great!!

Cathi · 06-19-2006, 12:15 PM

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Originally Posted by skillz954

let's just let it go...sound good?? K great!!

lol .. ok, leavin it alone and handing you a beer *rollin my eyes*

skillz954 · 06-19-2006, 03:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Cathi

lol .. ok, leavin it alone and handing you a beer *rollin my eyes*

thanks I could use a beer!!

STUNTFAN · 06-27-2006, 10:01 PM

My theory is if your going to cheat just leave and don't come back. Save everybody from the heartache.

Cathi · 06-29-2006, 01:08 PM

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Originally Posted by STUNTFAN

My theory is if your going to cheat just leave and don't come back. Save everybody from the heartache.

*high fives*

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05-22-2006, 04:24 AM	#61
SYTFU_R6 Registered User Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: a place where my car gets sideways and smokes everytime i touch the pedal. Age: 27 Bike: it's pretty and LOOKs like it stunts Gender: Male Posts: 2,859	Re: Head first into hot water my boy cheats on his girlfriend like he takes showers, but it isnt because he doesnt love her.... he loves the shit out of her, it is just like a hobby to him. its like he likes the stress of it, he likes to be questioned or something, like a game to him in some way. if it came to his relation ship and the girls he runs with i doubt he choose against his girl, but i know he would be back to the same old tricks again if he stopped. cheating on some one is really one of those things that are a tightrope walk.... cheating most of the time comes from curiosity, and i know from personal experience. i have not cheated..... well yeah i did, but the circumstances were so ****ed up. it was an emotion thing, and i tried to make right what i wronged, and i was totally honest with the girl that i cheated on. but to no avail i still did what i did..... my situation was that i had broken up with this one girl of 6 years, and i jumped into another relation ship too quick without letting my self heal. that is a main cause of cheating to tell the truth, fellas get a girl they dig(or vice versa.), and she is all so friendly and they hookup. she tells em about a ex and the guy is all cool about it, then later on in the relationship they cheat on em with the infamous "eX". other times, it isnt that the guy doesnt love his girl.... he just sees something that either his girl isnt, or something that is totally easy to get. guys and girls alike are that way, it is just depending on what the individuals restraints are. either they can just look and not touch, or they can rob the cookie jar. ok so sorry for butting my male testosterone in on your female discussion, i will exit now.

06-13-2006, 08:42 PM	#66
zxcraig Registered User Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: D-PORT,IOWA Age: 32 Bike: 08 zx6, 03 zx6rr Gender: Male Posts: 1,040	Re: Head first into hot water once and i still feal like shit when i think about it. gee thanks for reopening that wound. now where is that salt????

06-14-2006, 01:02 PM	#73
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06-27-2006, 10:01 PM	#79
STUNTFAN Registered User Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: waynesboro pa Age: 30 Bike: 600 katana Gender: Female Posts: 37	Re: Head first into hot water My theory is if your going to cheat just leave and don't come back. Save everybody from the heartache.