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Head first into hot water
05-10-2006, 04:05 PM
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Re: Head first into hot water
Originally Posted by gixxergirlMEG
It's funny that you mention that, my bf and I just had that exact same convo last night. I told him I'd rather him come to me and tell me that he isn't into our relationship anymore over finding out that he's been cheating on me. It'd hurt either way, but at least I could leave behind a relationship without bitterness and anger.
05-10-2006, 06:48 PM
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Re: Head first into hot water
Originally Posted by gixxergirlMEG
It's funny that you mention that, my bf and I just had that exact same convo last night. I told him I'd rather him come to me and tell me that he isn't into our relationship anymore over finding out that he's been cheating on me. It'd hurt either way, but at least I could leave behind a relationship without bitterness and anger.
05-10-2006, 07:07 PM
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Re: Head first into hot water
I cheated on someone once about 5 years ago. It was an unhealthy relationship, I was angry and extremely intoxicated. I actually don't even really remember if anything actually happened but because of the situation I'm assuming something happened that shouldn't. It was the worst thing I have ever done. Not entirely because I had hurt someone who cared about me, but that I actually commited a low, dirty, sum-bag act and now have to live with that.
Not everyone will cheat if they had the chance. Someone who has a good heart would never be in that situation, and if for some reason they are, they're conscience would tell them to run! Alcohol impares your judgement, but is no excuse.
Honesty and communication should be the main parts of a relationship. If you don't have that, you have nothing.
Not everyone will cheat if they had the chance. Someone who has a good heart would never be in that situation, and if for some reason they are, they're conscience would tell them to run! Alcohol impares your judgement, but is no excuse.
Honesty and communication should be the main parts of a relationship. If you don't have that, you have nothing.
05-10-2006, 07:31 PM
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Re: Head first into hot water
Originally Posted by FoxyLadyF4i
I cheated on someone once about 5 years ago. It was an unhealthy relationship, I was angry and extremely intoxicated. I actually don't even really remember if anything actually happened but because of the situation I'm assuming something happened that shouldn't. It was the worst thing I have ever done. Not entirely because I had hurt someone who cared about me, but that I actually commited a low, dirty, sum-bag act and now have to live with that.
Not everyone will cheat if they had the chance. Someone who has a good heart would never be in that situation, and if for some reason they are, they're conscience would tell them to run! Alcohol impares your judgement, but is no excuse.
Honesty and communication should be the main parts of a relationship. If you don't have that, you have nothing.
Not everyone will cheat if they had the chance. Someone who has a good heart would never be in that situation, and if for some reason they are, they're conscience would tell them to run! Alcohol impares your judgement, but is no excuse.
Honesty and communication should be the main parts of a relationship. If you don't have that, you have nothing.
+1 well put
05-11-2006, 06:19 PM
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Re: Head first into hot water
Originally Posted by FoxyLadyF4i
I cheated on someone once about 5 years ago. It was an unhealthy relationship, I was angry and extremely intoxicated. I actually don't even really remember if anything actually happened but because of the situation I'm assuming something happened that shouldn't. It was the worst thing I have ever done. Not entirely because I had hurt someone who cared about me, but that I actually commited a low, dirty, sum-bag act and now have to live with that.
Not everyone will cheat if they had the chance. Someone who has a good heart would never be in that situation, and if for some reason they are, they're conscience would tell them to run! Alcohol impares your judgement, but is no excuse.
Honesty and communication should be the main parts of a relationship. If you don't have that, you have nothing.
Not everyone will cheat if they had the chance. Someone who has a good heart would never be in that situation, and if for some reason they are, they're conscience would tell them to run! Alcohol impares your judgement, but is no excuse.
Honesty and communication should be the main parts of a relationship. If you don't have that, you have nothing.
05-14-2006, 12:20 PM
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Re: Head first into hot water
Originally Posted by gixxergirlMEG
It's funny that you mention that, my bf and I just had that exact same convo last night. I told him I'd rather him come to me and tell me that he isn't into our relationship anymore over finding out that he's been cheating on me. It'd hurt either way, but at least I could leave behind a relationship without bitterness and anger.
05-14-2006, 09:50 PM
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Re: Head first into hot water
i could careless being single and free to go up to a sexy girl whisper sweet melodies in hear and take her mind off of whatever problem she has and just focus on her, make her smile, make her laugh, make her feel comfortable.....see theres a difference in having a girlfriend and girls who are friends. I like to keep girls as friends and they know what the deal is....because it is what it is....But have i cheated when i was in a relationship No! But that biocht played me!!!!
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05-16-2006, 09:13 AM
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Re: Head first into hot water
Originally Posted by Dizzel
LOL.. you are too funny.
married men and other girls b/f's are off limits.. they are off the market.
married men and other girls b/f's are off limits.. they are off the market.
I had one friend tell me that married men are off limits, but if the guy has a g/f and he's out drinking and clubing and flirting, then he must not be serious w/his girl. I told her I would not even talk to the guy, she's like I would..
when I was single, I would go clubing just for the dancing, music, and drinking. A club is not a place to meet guys. just my
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05-16-2006, 09:21 AM
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Re: Head first into hot water
Originally Posted by gixxergirlMEG
I'm going to have to agree, cheating out of spite.. is well.. still cheating. You stooped to her level! But, hey, as long as you had fun, right?!
05-16-2006, 09:38 AM
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Re: Head first into hot water
Originally Posted by gixxergirlMEG
It's funny that you mention that, my bf and I just had that exact same convo last night. I told him I'd rather him come to me and tell me that he isn't into our relationship anymore over finding out that he's been cheating on me. It'd hurt either way, but at least I could leave behind a relationship without bitterness and anger.
Like you mentioned Meg, I rather have him be honest and tell me it's over, than to be continuing a relationship w/him cheating behind my back. The guys or even girls that are out there cheating have no back bone. just my opinion. It's very sneaky way of being. I was cheated on before, and it really sucks. the whole feeling of it. You have a hard time finding someone you can trust afterwards. It took me while, but I found someone I could trust. Even after my fiance/I got together, I still had a hard time trusting. You have that feeling of not wanting to get hurt again. I am very happy w/my man now, and I feel I have overcome the hurt I had experienced in my past. thanks to my baby..
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05-17-2006, 07:31 PM
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Re: Head first into hot water
Originally Posted by crisg555
2 wrongs don't make it right... (is that how it goes?)
05-17-2006, 07:37 PM
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Re: Head first into hot water
Originally Posted by crisg555
You have a hard time finding someone you can trust afterwards. It took me while, but I found someone I could trust. Even after my fiance/I got together, I still had a hard time trusting. You have that feeling of not wanting to get hurt again. I am very happy w/my man now, and I feel I have overcome the hurt I had experienced in my past. thanks to my baby..
05-18-2006, 04:26 PM
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Re: Head first into hot water
Originally Posted by gixxergirlMEG
My ex cheated on me with my best friend, or former best friend. I guess I got cheated on by 2 people in that situation. But the point is, I totally agree with you on the fact that it takes a long time where you can allow yourself to trust another person. My bf and I have been together for over a year, and are playing to move together 400 miles away from everyone we know, but it took a long time for me to let all of my defenses go. And to be honest, I doubt that I have actually let them all go. I just don't understand WHY people cheat. I work at a motorcycle shop and all day long I listen to my coworkers (all male) talk about cheating or playing a girl. They are totally proud of it. All I can think is how much of a dirty pig they are. At least I know there's good guys out there.. and after a few bad relationships, I'm lucky enough to have snagged one.
05-21-2006, 03:18 PM
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For anyone who reads Maxim.. I just got done with the May issue where some sexpert rattles on and on... anyway... read the article if you have it. I was intrigued to read the fact that some guy wrote in saying that he's engaged, but KNOWS that at some point he will cheat on her. His question was if this expert thought he should go ahead and get married to this girl that "he loves". Hmmm, I wonder? Her answer was an interesting read.
05-21-2006, 03:51 PM
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Re: Head first into hot water
Originally Posted by gixxergirlMEG
For anyone who reads Maxim.. I just got done with the May issue where some sexpert rattles on and on... anyway... read the article if you have it. I was intrigued to read the fact that some guy wrote in saying that he's engaged, but KNOWS that at some point he will cheat on her. His question was if this expert thought he should go ahead and get married to this girl that "he loves". Hmmm, I wonder? Her answer was an interesting read.
what a dumbass
